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"More often than not, the things we detest and  judge  in others are a reflection of the things we cannot except about ourselves" ~Iylana Vanzant
Being Me: Week 22 (Stop judging yourself if you want to stop feeling judged)
May theme- The difference between a flower and a weed is judgement
In order to stop judging yourself you need to learn to stop judging others. Start by examining where...

"Love is the absence of judgement ~Dalai Lama 
Being Me: Week 21 (Love is the absence of judgment ~ Dalai Lama)
May theme: The difference between a flower and a weed is judgment
As I lean into this study of judgement, reading stories to learn more, I am curiously aware of  the judgement I make and receive.  Judgement comes from a value we hold and when someone does not carry that same value,...

"Comparison is the thief of joy" ~Theodore Roosevelt 
Being Me: Week 20 (The grass isn't always greener) - how our thoughts direct our emotions
May theme: The difference between a flower and a weed is judgment
Have you ever noticed how much we allow the thinking mind to control our actions and attitude, especially when our attitude is not in a good place? This judgment based mindset maintains...

"Those who judge will never understand, and those who understand will never judge." 
Being Me: Week 19 (Judgment and why we judge)
May theme: The difference between a flower and a weed is judgment
All judgment is self judgment. When you see things you do not like in others, you are actually recognizing something you are judging within yourself. The things that bother us that other people do are...